I find my son is so insightful sometimes. He seems to say something that really makes me think almost every day. Today was no different.
But first:
I get distracted by “shiny objects” quite often and loose focus on my goals. These “shiny objects” can be internal or external distractions that we all face. I think of the inner distractions as the negative thoughts of laziness, uncertainty and fear. My biggest external distraction or Kryptonite is the television. Once I turn it on I get sucked into its vortex of amusement, wonder and possibilities and loose focus. I loose focus of my possibilities and wonder. On the days that I have television so dominantly in my environment I have to regain focus.
How do you regain focus? How do you reframe your mindset to get all that you what to accomplish done in one day?
I will often turn the television off until I have made a list. You see, I am a list maker. If it doesn’t get written down then it will not get done or at least not as quickly and proficiently. For me to be successful I have to have it written down and not let “shiny objects” distract me.
I thought a lot about his topic this morning. I have been puttering around the house after three long days at work. I have been telling myself that I deserve time on the couch in front of the television. I should relax. I have tomorrow.
Then my son’s words, from that very morning, echoed in my head.
He said, ” Mom do you know that you are going to die after Dad. He is older than you so he is going to die first”. I replied and said, “We never know when we are going to die”. This answer didn’t faze him. I am a nurse and he has heard stories of tragedy from birth. In my head I thought it could be tomorrow, it could be well right now. So, the next words I spoke were, “That is why we need to be happy with what we have and work hard towards what you really want”.
Just as I write these words, I struggle with how I can keep them firmly placed in my mind. Not loose focus of how powerful each moment can be. We can sit and waste away small opportunities to get what we want by getting distracted. Waste time.
Now, without distractions we cannot be reminded that we need to get up look away from the television and go get what we really want.
So, I wish everyone a productive, none “shiny object” day full of wonder and possibilities. Or, just the right amount of distractions.